Eleanor & Park

Rainbow Rowell
“Eleanor & Park reminded me not just what it’s like to be young and in love with a girl, but also what it’s like to be young and in love with a book.”—John Green, The New York Times Book ReviewBono met his wife in high school, Park says.So did Jerry Lee Lewis, Eleanor answers.I’m not kidding, he says.You should be, she says, we’re 16.What about Romeo and Juliet?Shallow, confused, then dead.I love you, Park says.Wherefore art thou, Eleanor answers.I’m not kidding, he says.You should be.Set over the course of one school year in 1986, this is the story of two star-crossed misfits—smart enough to know that first love almost never lasts, but brave and desperate enough to try. When Eleanor meets Park, you’ll remember your own first love—and just how hard it pulled you under.  


Reviewed: 2018-09-28
4.5 stars

This book is just lovely, sweet and heartbreaking. And it is clear from the beautiful fan art present on-line that this book has touched many a heart.

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Reviewed: 2018-05-07
Eleanor is a redheaded girl starting at a new school. She will get picked on because of her clothes and because of her weight but her first problem is finding a seat on the bus. Insert Park! Park is a Korean boy who feels bad that nobody is letting Eleanor sit next to them on the bus and tells her to sit next to him in a mean and nasty way. He doesn’t understand why this girl is dressed the way she is and that she doesn’t care how she looks. The two of them begin to ride the bus next to each other every day and start building a relationship. But Eleanor comes from a rough family. She lives at home with her mom and step-dad and her four younger siblings. There’s never enough food and Eleanor sometimes has to wear the same clothes two days in row but none of that is as bad as her step-dad. But when Park becomes the most important person in her life, she hides their relationship from her family because she fears her step-dad. This book started out kind of rough for me. I was a little bored with it and did not see anything special about the characters and their story but it started to grow on me. I enjoyed reading about Eleanor and Park reading comic books on the bus and sharing music with each other. They were seriously so cute! But Eleanor was a little mean, I thought. Maybe it was just because she kept everything bottled up and never wanted to open up to Park but it came across as rude and mean. She also would get so upset over little things that Park would say and I thought she was seriously overreacting. Park’s dad was one of my favorite characters. Park describes him at times as rough and I can totally see that since he is a veteran but he is just a “cool” dad and I loved reading the chapters that he was in. The ending of the book is was upset me the most. I was left with so many questions and I’m still wondering what happened with them. I just feel like so much is unresolved and I need to know! If you tend to like books with happy endings, maybe don’t pick this one up. I’m not really sure though because some people would say that it is a happy ending. It’s very hard to explain. I guess it is a happy ending but there’s still so much that I want to know and we don’t get that information. Either way, this is a book that you should just pick the book up for yourself and decide.
Reviewed: 2018-01-03

Eleanor & Park is a love story set in the 80۪s. If it didn۪t already have that going against it, it۪s a star-crossed affair between two teenage outsiders, so it seems like it should just be the worst kind of clich̩d teenage drivel, but it isn۪t. Unlike the usual outsider۝ protagonists I۪ve run across in YA romances- the ones who are actually super attractive and cookie-cutter but just don۪t know it despite being constantly reminded- Eleanor and Park feel genuinely outside the place they۪ve been forced to inhabit, like the only place they truly belong is with each other. Which I guess is really what young love is all about- finding that place where you really fit, even if that place is a person.

This book was devastating, but not for the reasons I would have anticipated. Maybe I۪m too cynical, maybe I۪ve read one too many doomed young love stories, but it wasn۪t the romance or its inevitable fallout that crushed me. I did find it believable and sad and beautiful in all of its teenage messiness and intensity, but it was the reality of Eleanor۪s family that had me tied up in knots.

I had a stepfather with whom I did not get along. He wasn۪t abusive, per se, and he came from his own traumatized childhood, but to some degree I can empathize with Eleanor on a level that goes beyond the surface. My step dad was very judgmental, since I was everything he would have never wanted in a child of his own. Instead of being an athletic, outdoorsy country kid, I was a bookish wallflower who avoided kids my own age. And like any kid with a step parent, at some point I felt that my mom had chosen him over me, knowing how little we could get along. His opinions were vocal, and when he must have thought he was being funny, he was actually tearing my self-worth apart, not to mention he was incredibly strict. A lot of what he had to say was internalized, which I guess is typical of thin-skinned teenagers who are already struggling with identity. (On a side note, we reconciled somewhat as we both got older and learned to make adjustments for each other). But back then I felt afraid, like walking in the living room was walking into a minefield. So take this, and multiply it many times and you have Eleanor۪s putrid stepfather, Ricky.

Eleanor has her newness, her poverty, her wild red hair, and her size already working against her when she arrives on the school bus one morning, and the popular kids are quick to go for the jugular as soon as possible- she is soon christened Big Red. But their treatment is nothing, really, compared to the soul-sucking hell that is her home life. Some reviewers have speculated about (or rather, expressed exasperation with) Eleanor۪s passivity in the face of the torment she receives at school, but I think these people just don۪t get it. High school bullies are a dime a dozen, but when you have Satan as a step-father, you learn to keep your head down; not rocking the boat would be a life-saving imperative for someone in Eleanor۪s situation, and that kind of passivity doesn۪t just go away when you walk out the door in the morning. For reasons not initially disclosed, Eleanor has been living apart from her family and at the start of the novel is just moving back in, forcing her to completely relearn her own family dynamic. Her mother is worn down and desperate to keep things together, and her siblings can۪t quite figure out where their allegiances lie. Ricky is a beer-swilling white trash asshole, a ticking time bomb of alcoholic rage- and possibly something even more sinister. Eleanor۪s position in the household always feels temporary; she can be discarded whenever Ricky damn well pleases, because her mother is too afraid (and frankly, too stupid) to do anything about it. (Seriously, at one point Ricky screams at the kids I could get rid of all of you!۝ Who would let a man like that within 500 feet of their children?)

Park, on the other hand, has advantages Eleanor can only dream about. He۪s not a popular kid, but he has his own place in the general hierarchy, and his family is, if not perfect, at least averagely dysfunctional. His parents are sappily in love, even after years of marriage, and he has just about all of the material goods a teenager could want. But as a half-Korean kid in whitewashed Husker country and the smaller, more delicate son (compared to his father and brother), he still feels himself to be an outsider.

His first impressions of Eleanor are about as far away from love at first sight as possible, and hers aren۪t much in his favor either. Forced to share a bus seat by the territoriality of small town teenagers, they barely stand each other at first. Of course, this gives way to tolerance, to friendship, and eventually to that particular brand of intense love that only teenagers desperate for acceptance are capable of. They don۪t speak much at first; their attraction builds as they share the things they love with each other, starting with Park۪s comic books. I would be lying if I said falling in love over the original issues of Watchmen isn۪t kind of dreamy, because it is. Comics, music, and books soon become romantic currency between them, as they share more and more of each other and build their universe of two.

Since we all know the course of true love never did run smooth, especially in YA, there are difficulties beyond the schoolyard. Eleanor۪s stepdad would send her away (again) if he knew about Park, and her mother is just as culpable in keeping them apart, since anything that would remotely rock the boat is strictly forbidden. Park۪s family, though initially skeptical (especially his mother), accept Eleanor and their time together at his house becomes a respite that just can۪t last; small towns have big mouths.

I won۪t go any further into the specifics of their relationship, or the tipping point in the narrative, to save on spoilers, but just a bit more on the family issue. I was on edge through this story, hoping not only that Eleanor and Park would find a way to be together, but that Eleanor and her siblings would get out of that horrible house- with or without their pathetic mother. I know I should be more sympathetic- battered women are not asking for it۝ or any other victim-blaming nonsense- but it couldn۪t be more obvious that Ricky had to have been clearly bad news from the earliest days. When your boyfriend forces one of your children out of your home, you don۪t marry him. You just DON۪T. So I struggled with finding sympathy for Eleanor۪s mom, but I felt torn up inside thinking about her brothers and sister. There have been complaints about the open-ended nature of the romance; I thought it was realistically handled, but I really could have used closure for her family situation.

I have really dragged this one out, but I think the point I۪m trying to make is that this is some really top-notch stuff. Not just for YA, but in general. Rather than just being generic star-crossed relationship drama, it has depth throughout and makes us (or at least me) care about all of the people involved, not just the eponymous leads. I۪m looking forward to reading more of Rowell in the future.

(Cross-posted at booklikes.com, http://atroskity.booklikes.com/post/962642/review-eleanor-park)
Reviewed: 2017-12-07
5 stars

Initial Impressions:AHHH the ending!!!
I honestly didn't think I was going to fall in love with this book, so hats off to Rainbow Rowell because I DID. It was rather different from what I expected but in an amazing way. Highly recommended!!

Review originally posted on The Book Addict's Guide: Simply put: I loved ELEANOR & PARK and I totally didn’t see it coming. I was definitely enjoying the book the whole time – Don’t get me wrong there – but I did not expect to fall in love with it. Based on everything I had seen, I was expecting ELEANOR & PARK to be a cute, upbeat love story with a strong musical connection. Obviously the music tie-in was still there, but E&P is definitely a lot deeper than I originally thought.

Eleanor has a troubled home life. Her mom and dad are separated and after her step-dad Richie kicked her out last year, our story begins with Eleanor returning home to live in a cramped house with her mother and 4 siblings. Park has a great family in his parents, brother, and grandparents who live next-door, but he still doesn’t quite fit in. He’s one step away from being the focus of the bully’s attention at school with his soft, Korean features and obvious different tastes in music (punk) and reading (comics).

The best part about ELEANOR & PARK is how naturally the two incredibly different characters fell together and fit so perfectly. It all started one day on the bus and from there, Rainbow Rowell takes the reader on an extremely moving journey to bring the characters together and really form a strong bond between the two. Yes, there were times when I was frustrated with the characters, but that’s just a natural progression of a story and well… high school.

What really pulled me in was Eleanor’s story line and how truly difficult her home life was. She was an outcast in her own home, never allowed to act naturally and sometimes I found myself questioning, what even is acting naturally for Eleanor? Her step-dad is an absolute terror, her mom does nothing about it, and Eleanor has to try to keep an eye on the little kids while still trying to hold all the pieces of her life together. My heart just went out to her!! And I felt slightly murderous towards her step-father.

I admit that I wasn’t entirely sold on the book until the very end. I won’t spoil anything, but there came a certain point in the book where the whole story took an enormous shift and I had such a strong array of emotions that simply overwhelmed me. While the book is a bit heartbreaking overall due to Eleanor’s situation, it’s also heartwarming to see these two characters learn how to love each other, never before feeling capable of it.
Reviewed: 2017-01-02
That went downhill very quickly. The hit book that supposedly everybody loves...but I don't get at all. Eleanor and Park are two teenagers who eventually build a friendship and then a relationship after he lets her sit next to him on the bus. But what could have been your typically teenage romance ends up being something else.
Eleanor is a poor white girl who was once kicked out of her family's home by her drunk and abusive step-father for a year. She stayed with neighbors, until her mother came one day and picked her up. But her stepfather is still abusive.
One day she meets Park, a half white, half Korean boy on the bus. He lets her sit next to him and over time they develop a friendship and then romantic relationship based on comics, music and other shared interests.
I thought the book started off kinda "eh" but began to pick up steam. Then I saw that all this book was about was their relationship and how it develops. Their home lives are still secondary to the plot, which is unfortunate since both are actually a LOT more interesting than the relationships. Park has issues being the older son (but shorter than his brother), as well as his appearance and occasional difficult relationship with his white father.
I was shocked to find I somehow missed that most of the story takes place in Omaha, Nebraska. So I must look in askance at the portrayal of Park, being half white and half Caucasian, plus two black friends of Eleanor. Other than some jokes about Park being Chinese, etc. in the beginning of the book, I find it hard to believe that none of the non-white characters experienced much racism. It could be that the alternating viewpoints of Eleanor and Park cuts that aspect out, but other reviews seem to indicate that Rowell did ZERO research for what Park's or DeNice's or Beebi's experiences might have been actually like.
I also wanted to know what happened to Eleanor's family in the end. Park's family comes to a sort of understanding with each other, but Eleanor's young siblings are left without their eldest sister an a mom who is unable or unwilling (or both) to get them out of harm's way.
At the beginning, I was pleased and thought I had found a YA book I actually really liked. It was a little amazing to see how quickly it went downhill for me. I can't say I recommend it. There really is no plot and I side-eye the lack of historical research the author has done.
Reviewed: 2016-11-01
Reviewed: 2015-08-26
Rainbow Rowell is officially one of my new favorite authors. This book...it was quirky and the characters were a bit odd, but that's why you love them. That ending though... I teared up a bit.
Reviewed: 2015-05-14
Ugh you stupid emotions and tears, go away. Such a cute and realistic love story between teenagers in the 1980s. Eleanor and Park are so much alike that it was frustrating at times when all their little arguments would stem because each of them are self conscious and afraid to tell the other what is going on in the head, but that is what made the story realistic because teenagers are that way. The ending was incredibly tear inducing. Very glad I gave this book a go. My only "beef" with it is that Eleanor's likes and dislikes pretty much matches to Park's with very few exceptions, have a mind of your own girl. But overall very well deserved 4 star book and I look forward to reading more of Rainbow Rowell's books.
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